D’ Encounter with Homosapiens ??

Just feel like rambling about human beings, their values, characteristics and sorts.. Do you agree with the statement below ??

The hardest thing in life is to achieve a balanced & happy relationship between 2 people

Of course that’s because we all have our different wants and needs.. My needs may not apply to others and vice versa.. So, how can we reach this equilibrium where you, I , he, she and they are happy ?? Maybe i ‘m a pessimist, but I really thing it is IMPOSSIBLE.. 

Well, they do say communication is the key to everything.. But, how can we be sure of that ? You can’t tell if somebody feeds you a pack of lies, can you ? There’s always those 2 FACED people eh.. You know, when in front of you they say how pretty and outgoing you are, but stab you in the back once your “back” is turned and call you a faker or worse, a slut.. Sounds familiar ?Ever been through it ? I’m sure most of us have went through it once or twice in life..

LIFE sounds so depressing coming out from my mouth

Yes, we know there’s this thing called BESTFRIEND.. But, to what level does this friendship extends ? Will you sacrifice and give up your boyfriend / husband without a fight if you knew your bestfriend is in hopeless love with your Mr. Right ? Will you jump into the fire to save your bestfriend in danger of being engulfed by fiery flames ?

I can’t deny there may be a sprinkling of people who might sacrifice their self but does it make up to even 5% of the world’s population ?

I have bestfriends, too.. But, I can’t promise that I can sacrifice my life for them however much I love them.. Because back to the basic logic, humans are born alone and alone they will thrive.. Hence, many people said if you put yourself in the 1st place, you are selfish.. But who will help you if not yourself ?

I don’t know why I’m being so pessimistic and philosophical (if you can call it that) all of a sudden.. Maybe I had went through ups and downs in life that may have affect me more than I myself know it.. Maybe everything isn’t what it seems ?

How well can you define friendship or even relationship ?

Do share with me…